This is what happens at 50:
Nothing changes. And I’m still ambitious. And I still worry about tomorrow. And I still want to learn to be more peaceful.
I still want to choose myself. For health. For success. For good people in my life.
You have more experiences to create art, write a book, start a business.
With know how to DO instead of just type onto an angry message on Twitter.
And in 50 years, hopefully I have at least one, maybe two, unique things to say.
People say, “no idea is new”.
This is BS. Every idea is new. You did it.
When I was ten I wanted to be an astronaut, a writer, a spy, a superhero, and an advice columnist.
I wrote a play. I did spy on people. But I couldn’t figure out how to be a superhero. I read collected columns of “Dear Abby” (an advice columnist) every day.
The only advice I remember her giving was to a woman who was married to a guy who would go to clubs for “sexual favors”. The woman didn’t know what to do. Abby told her!
Then when I was in sixth grade I forgot all about the things in fifth grade. I wanted to be President! Then in seventh grade I joined a cult. And so on.
Now, people as young as 17 are sending me emails that say, “I’m 17 and I feel like I have done nothing in life! What should I do?”
There’s a simple answer: do whatever you want. Then it all adds up.
If you try to get 1% better each day at your health, at your relationships and the way you treat people, at your creativity, and at turning despair into gratitude, then that 1% compounds into an amazing person.
Do that 1%. Take one action. Even if the actions is for one minute. The 1/1/1 strategy.
I know this. Because I’m still compounding. What is 1%? Whatever you want it to be. The math of life is multi-dimensional.
What happens to amazing people? Everything happens to them. And you never worry about what you accomplish. Because there is no ONE thing. There is EVERY thing. And every day.
Here are some people who accomplished things late in life. I admire all of them. I’m 50, and one day I’m going to figure out what I want to do with my life.