In marriage how often should a man/woman “get paid” or have sex with their significant other? –@Psfs
First off, you use an interesting phrase: “get paid.” Given the scarcity of characters we have on Twitter (140), you could have just said, how often should one have sex with their spouse? Instead, you had to explain it.
So “get paid” sort of implies one side owes something to the other side (the man or the woman, you are careful enough to point out).
I would say it is better if you both want it. How can that happen? Well, keeping the paid analogy, why don’t you do a little of your wife’s job and she does a little of yours? Try that every day. See if it increases the feeling of partnership or the feeling of wanting the other in your life. Then try this: have sex every day for a year.
That seems like a lot of work. Particularly if you are older. How can you have an orgasm every day? Well, who says you have to have that? But have sex every day for a year anyway, no pressures, just fun.
Check out this article http://nyti.ms/wHIbx4 on a couple that had sex every day for a year. It sounds pretty good. I think I’ll try it.