Suppose you’ve gone on three or four dates with a girl, do you ever ask her: Where do we stand? –@eugenephoto
There’s several things I don’t know here:
How good are you at reading emotional cues? Where are you going, what are you doing on these dates?
For instance, is she afraid to say “no” when you ask her on another date? Is she delaying or postponing dates? There are lots of clues that you probably have gathered by this moment.
But, I will tell you this. There is no need to ask her if you are on the fifth date. By the fifth date, you two know enough about each other. At the end of the date, simply move in for the kiss. You will know very quickly where you stand, or sleep, that night.